ED or Performance Anxiety?

ED or Performance Anxiety?

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ED or Performance Anxiety?
ED is usually thought of as an older man’s issue. Young men are often told “It’s all in your head”.  Well, not so fast. It’s not quite as simple as that. The Guardian (UK) contacted me to share my thoughts in this recent article where they bring up some really great points and paints a […]

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Understanding Men: The Hidden Reasons We Feel What We Feel and Do What We Do

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Understanding Men: The Hidden Reasons We Feel What We Feel and Do What We Do
Part 1             When I was five years old my father took an overdose of sleeping pills and was committed to Camarillo State Mental Hospital. I grew up with an insatiable desire to understand what happened to my father and terrified it would happen to me. I went to college, got married, had children, earned […]

Preventing Gray Divorce: Enlighten Your Relationship With The 5 Stages of Love

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Preventing Gray Divorce: Enlighten Your Relationship With The 5 Stages of Love
Recent research shows that the divorce rate is at a 40-year low, unless you are over fifty. “Younger married couples are less likely to split up, but ‘gray’ divorces among older couples are on the rise,” according to Jo Craven McGinty, a columnist for The Wall Street Journal. According to the Pew Research Center, the […]

The 5 Stages of Love and Why Most Relationships Hit the Wall at Stage 3: What A Man Must Do to Save His Marriage

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The 5 Stages of Love and Why Most Relationships Hit the Wall at Stage 3: What A Man Must Do to  Save His Marriage
Old stereotypes would have us believe that women are more focused on relationships than men, but I have found that is not true, though men and women do see marriage through different lenses. A loving, intimate, and joyful marriage is just as important to men as it is to women. It is also just as […]

Masculinity in America: Biden, Trump, Partnership and Domination

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Masculinity in America: Biden, Trump, Partnership and Domination
As the U.S. election nears and the Coronavirus continues to infect more than 50,000 Americans a day, the one question we must ask ourselves is this: Which man will truly protect and serve us? When faced with complex social problems that are difficult to understand and solve, it’s human nature to cling to our group. […]

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Father Earth and the New Partnership Revolution: Healing Relationships in the Post Coronavirus World

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Father Earth and the New Partnership Revolution: Healing Relationships in the Post Coronavirus World
I was introduced to Father Earth in 1993 and wrote about my experience in an article, “The Resurrection of Father Earth and the Return of True Partnership Between Men and Women.” Since then my life has never been the same. When Clarissa Pinkola Estes, author of Women Who Run With The Wolves, offered her poem, […]

I recently started dating a new girl and can’t get hard whenever we want to have sex. I’ve always watched porn on and off and used nicotine throughout other relationships and have never had a problem with sex. Lately I’ve been very stressed.

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I recently started dating a new girl and can’t get hard whenever we want to have sex. I’ve always watched porn on and off and used nicotine throughout other relationships and have never had a problem with sex. Lately I’ve been very stressed.
Thanks for your question. To get an erection, lots of things need to work together: Good blood flow to your penis Good nerve signaling to your penis  Normal hormone balance Other things such as stress (physical or emotional), mood, and use of substances such as alcohol or marijuana can affect your ability to get an […]

End Times: Is Humanity Doomed or Ready for a New Beginning

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End Times: Is Humanity Doomed or Ready for a New Beginning
If you believe we are facing a global climate crisis, increasing threats of war, and endless political conflict no matter who becomes our next President, you are rightly concerned about our future. I recently returned from the library, usually, a place of comfort and calm. I checked out the “new book” shelf and found End […]

6 Things You Don’t Know About Irritable Male Syndrome That Could Be Wrecking Your Relationship

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6 Things You Don’t Know About Irritable Male Syndrome That Could Be Wrecking Your Relationship
Like most of the things I write about, Irritable Male Syndrome (IMS) comes from both my personal and professional experience. Professionally, I’ve counseled more than 25,000 individuals and couples who took my IMS quiz and recognized that male anger was a problem in their lives. Personally, IMS nearly destroyed my marriage. Here’s an excerpt from […]

How to Prepare for the End and Love Doing It: Nine Easy Steps for 2020

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How to Prepare for the End and Love Doing It: Nine Easy Steps for 2020
Let’s face it, we all are experiencing a fair amount of tension and stress as we begin the new year and new decade. We all have the usual stresses at home and at work dealing with life. But we’re also facing significant changes outside our personal lives. In the U.S. we’re dealing with the impeachment […]

#MeToo, Men, and the Polarization of the Left and Right: The End of Humanity or a New Beginning

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#MeToo, Men, and the Polarization of the Left and Right: The End of Humanity or a New Beginning
Let me go on record and declare myself. I believe the MeToo Movement is good for women and men. I believe that men are good, but many are confused and angry. I believe that we must end the polarization of the left and right or humanity is in danger of destroying itself. I have five […]

How can I overcome panic attacks? I’m a usually nervous person, but three panic attacks in two months seems like a lot and I don’t want my friends or my parents to know.

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How can I overcome panic attacks? I’m a usually nervous person, but three panic attacks in two months seems like a lot and I don’t want my friends or my parents to know.
Hello, and thank you for asking this very important question! Panic attacks can be very scary and overwhelming, and you deserve to have some relief. They may occur when a person is experiencing a lot of stress. The stress may build up until it is so overwhelming that our bodies and minds feel out of […]

I’m 14 and I am uncircumcised. I’m having trouble pulling my foreskin down, and recently the top of my foreskin has become red and sore. I researched and it said to clean the white smegma but I can’t clean it because i can’t retract my foreskin… help!

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I’m 14 and I am uncircumcised. I’m having trouble pulling my foreskin down, and recently the top of my foreskin has become red and sore. I researched and it said to clean the white smegma but I can’t clean it because i can’t retract my foreskin… help!
Thanks for your question. You are right, it is important for males who are not circumcised to be able to pull back their foreskin. Sometimes you can get smegma, which is essentially white debris, under your foreskin that can be cleaned with lukewarm water. Sometimes males can get a yeast infection under their foreskin. Both […]

Are There More Stupid Men in the World Than Stupid Women?

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Are There More Stupid Men in the World Than Stupid Women?
Both sexes have their share of stupidity, but I believe that more men predominate in that category. I often pick a provocative title for my articles. The upside is that more people will read them. The downside is that some people will like, or hate, the title and not read the entire article. I trust […]

Why Men Hold the Key for A Happy Marriage

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Why Men Hold the Key for A Happy Marriage
When I was growing up, men and women had different roles. The old rules required men to be the protectors and breadwinners. Women’s role was to be the homemakers and nurturers.  Men’s world was outside the home in the workplace and women’s world was inside the home with the family. The old rules assumed marriage […]

How to Get Through the Holidays Without Getting Stressed Out

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How to Get Through the Holidays Without Getting Stressed Out
Holiday season is a time for peace, joy, gift-giving, and family fun. It can also be a time of stress and anxiety. We have more and more things on our to-do list and we feel under pressure to get everything done on a deadline. At least that’s how it feels to me. What’s it like […]

The Two Most Important Issues Facing Males Today

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The Two Most Important Issues Facing Males Today
I’ve known Michael Gurian for more than thirty years. We met at one of the early men’s gatherings in 1990 and I’ve gotten to know him quite well over the years. He is one of the world’s foremost gender experts and has pioneered efforts to bring neuro-biology and brain research into homes, schools, corporations, and […]

What’s Good About Men? Learn the 12 Rules for Good Men

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What’s Good About Men? Learn the 12 Rules for Good Men
On November 21, 2019, I celebrated the birth of my son, Jemal. He turned 50 years old. At the moment he was born and I held him for the first time, I made a promise that I would be a better father than my father was able to be for me. I also vowed to […]

Removing Pubic Hair

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Removing Pubic Hair
Some guys trim their pubic hair, others prefer to shave or wax, and most guys just leave it alone. It’s not necessary to remove the hair in this area to keep your body clean; it’s just a personal preference. Trimming: Trimming is the most basic and affordable way of maintaining the appearance of your pubic […]

The Hidden Reason Men Get Crazy Angry at The One We Love the Most

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The Hidden Reason Men Get Crazy Angry at The One We Love the Most
One of the questions I hear over and over again is “Why is my husband so mean to me?” I’ve also written about this in an article “Why Are Men So Angry?”  Of course, we all get angry at times and women’s anger can be as hurtful as men’s. But there is a universal trigger […]
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